These days it's popular to obsess about our faults and insecurities and
limits, of course it is, but it does nothing to move you forward.
And if you happen to stall there, that’s the
feeling of
“being stuck,” and unable to move forward.
That alone causes added stress and anxiety.
Your limited beliefs will always be there.
The question is: do they win, or do you?
Do you rise to the calling of your greatness and service in your heart,
or do you routinely shrink back to the thought of what limits you?
Magic resides within you. So live it.
Do you rise to the calling of greatness in your heart,
or do you routinely shrink back to the thought of what limits you?
The temptation to become disappointed, disenchanted and discouraged is real.
The remedy to stress is clear: don’t give up on you!
Stress is a legitimate mental condition that can have serious debilitating effects
by manifesting in many ways, some physical and others not so recognizable.
High levels of stress are indeed measurable,
and the end result?
Self sabotage or
worse, pre-mature aging.
Once and for
all take an active stand against allowing stress into your life in the first
place, and put the advice in this article to work for you in your efforts to
lead a healthier lifestyle with greater peace of mind so you can relax and
truly enjoy this time of year.
First of all, figure out the main cause of your stress, and see if you can
find ways to reduce or eliminate it.
One
of the best ways is simply by saying “no” especially to other people’s demands
for your time and attention.
Eliminating
over commitment is one of the easiest ways to minimize stress and improve
performance.
For example, if you've got
a friend or co-worker who creates stressful situations for you with demands on
your time and attention, segment the amount time you allow for them in advance
if you can.
You may even want to distance
yourself from them, or stay far away from that person all together.
Who cares what other people might think?
Getting rid of all the large sources of
stress in your life will improve your overall attitude, your outlook on life, and
your health.
Simply say no...
Any time you feel stress welling up, you should think about what makes you
happy, what fulfills you, and what you want to get done… not what others want
you to do for them. Positive and ambitious thoughts can create the proper
balance of chemicals in your body so that you can improve your mood on demand.
Too much of a good thing can be just as harmful
as well.
Exercise; although it’s a great
way to reduce stress can also be used as a way to avoid what causes your stress
in the first place.
So keep that in
perspective.
TIP! You may
need to see a doctor because anxiety can be too much to deal with on your own.
You may want to consider seeking assistance from a professional.
Try minimizing stress by managing your time better.
There is truth in the saying, “Early to bed
and early to rise.”
When you are always
rushing to get things done, multi-tasking, your body is under constant physiological
stress, and believe it or not, the body pushes back just as hard in ways that
are hard to understand.
Ease this burden
by sharpening your ability to complete tasks in an efficient manner.
Getting things done promptly and
systematically will stop everything from piling up, which causes even more stress.
My advice?
The very first thing you do at the start of your day is to get one thing
done completely, and do it everyday.
This ritual alone will keep procrastination at bay, which is just another source of
stress for most people.
Put an end to procrastination
Secondly, your friends and family will not want to hear about your problems
all the time, so pick a time and place that is appropriate. There are times that
talking about your problems is necessary.
Friends will always be there to listen, so it
is vital to use this option to help relieve your stress and anxiety.
Remember, you cannot say the wrong thing to
the right person, but on the flip side, you cannot say the right thing to the
wrong person.
It’s best to err on the
side of caution, state the facts, avoid embellishing the situation, and resist
ruminating (repeating yourself) to make your point, and avoid confrontation.
Third, make sure you take some time for yourself every day, no matter how
busy you are. You can have a quiet cup of coffee as you read something new, get
up early to jump rope, or take a walk during a mid-day break.
These special, quiet times during your day can
reduce your stress levels and allow you some time to relax.
If you’ve learned something during that time
be sure to teach someone what it is, because it only reinforces it better for
you.
That’s why the people you admire
seem to have-it-together, and have a certain order to their lives and a level
of control most would covet.
So teach someone
something new everyday.
TIP! Avoid relying
on drugs or alcohol to treat your anxiety, as this will only lead to other
problems. Severe and chronic anxiety should be treated professionally, or dealt
with in a manner conducive to your well being.
Stress is a major factor in loss of productivity and focus in almost all
areas of your life.
Our brains are
hardwired to address all human drives, and learning how to harness some of
those base drives is the solution to minimize stress and anxiety.
Those base drives include:
- Discipline,
- Proficiency,
- Consistency,
- Thoughtfulness and
- Association.
Many people who become stressed are unable to motivate
themselves out of their situation.
Amplifying
what is great within you will certainly accelerate your life faster than fixing
what you “think” limits you.
Most
authorities agree how dietary deficiencies can cause widespread health problems
just as a deficiency in the base drives above can cause the first signs of
stress and anxiety, which left alone or ignored only get worse.
Amplifying
what is great within you will accelerate your life faster than fixing
what you “think” is limiting you.
You must become your own change agent.
Recognize the fact you are a product of what you read, what you watch on
television, the music you listen to, and the people with whom you spend the
most time.
In order to break the chains
of stress and anxiety say yes to how you change your environment in what ever
way you can.
Get out of your own way,
make a connection with someone each day, teach someone something new, care
about that person, and grow your list.
Listen
for unfulfilled needs and desires — and listen for values. After awhile, instead of finding ways to cope with
daily stress and anxiety, you’ll need to only schedule time for it once and
awhile.